Showing posts with label encouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label encouragement. Show all posts

Friday, January 17, 2014

Fun Ways With Math - Find Your Perfect Match!

This is a great video and occurs to me that this same analysis works not just for online dating but for identifying your ideal business prospect too.

The takeaway?
  1. Optimize your profile
  2. Be really clear on your data points and weighting
  3. Be more picky - but around the right metrics.


Update:

So here is a guy having a go with mathematics - who has a better system?
http://www.wired.com/wiredscience/2014/01/how-to-hack-okcupid/

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

Contemplating A Better Life

Banner for A better life article by @lindyasimus



A better life. What does that mean? Different things for each of us. 



"To always be intending to make a new and better life 
but never to find the time to set about it is as to 
put off eating and drinking and sleeping from one day to the next 
until you're dead."

 ~ Og Mandino



It's easy to think 'better life' must be more money more expensive cars and luxury stuff. 

More growth in the economy. Indeed it could be something quite different. 


A better life could be:


  • more time for ourselves, 
  • more healthy lifestyle, 
  • more opportunity to follow our special interests, 
  • less stress, 
  • less arguing,
  • more sustainable way of living.
  • more affection from our partner
  • less confrontation at work
  • more successful results in our business
  • making progress in our career
  • being able to travel
  • clearing the clutter out of the spare room
  • happy children with a nice place to live
  • a vegetable garden
  • redecorating your house
  • learning to be good with money
  • eliminating toxic debt
  • being more generous
  • mending fences with estranged family
  • more positive outlook on life
  • smile more
  • relax more
  • exercise enough for your body's needs
  • eat well for your body and enjoy it
  • learn more 
  • understand more
  • worry less
  • be better organised
  • be less controlling
  • be more confident
  • let go of the past
  • have more fun 
  • dream a great future
  • learning to love yourself and others in a healthy way
What are three things you would like to be better in your life?


Thursday, November 28, 2013

Postcard Underground Encouraging


Here's a nice idea - A better way to support someone's bright idea! Postcard Underground Here's how one recipient responded. See article

"Have you ever heard of the Postcard Underground? Us either until last week. Turns out there is this nationwide group of people who pick an inspiring person, group or organization and inundates them with kind words through an age-old medium -- postcards. After all, who doesn't love a little "snail mail"? Receiving these notes is the kind of thing that really can turn a day around. So even though we don't know who you are, from all of us at ASC we say THANK YOU!

Among many wonderful things contained in the cards were these excerpts:

"Your work is important and appreciated!" - Nina (Minneapolis)
"Its amazing you've brought these two groups of people together" - Allison (Boston)
"Thank you for your inspired ideas and creative use of the spirit of adventure" - Anne (Seattle)
"Awesome idea! Thanks for making it happen." - Sue (Saint Paul) 

I always love to see signs of active encouragement! It seems like there is far too little going around, so this appealed to me a lot. 
For two reasons:
  1. Someone took action to support another's good idea
  2. They are fine tuning their sensors to notice good ideas around them!
I think this is a brilliant idea and the only thing that would make it better to me is to not have to go to the post office. I have a solution to that too that works for me. Here's an app you can use so you don't need to go there either!   Now you can send them off straight from your computer to their snail mail - and have no barrier to sending out your words of encouragement too!  
You could send postcards to encourage and offer recognition of a good idea or work to:
  • Friends
  • Charities
  • People with good ideas
  • Newly divorced
  • Newly married 
  • Graduates 
  • New parents 
  • Your parents 
Who else would you like to encourage?